

I teach parents how to educate their own children (especially those with struggling learners) so that they can successfully and peacefully homeschool or provide supplemental education at home. This podcast will discuss: - various learning disabilities and challenges, including: ADHD, dyslexia, autism, processing disorders, and so much more! - how all people learn - different learning styles - strategies for supporting specific learning challenges - how to apply these learning strategies at home - stories from homeschooling parents -interviews from other experts
Episodes

Monday Sep 12, 2022
3 Learning Principles You NEED to Know!
Monday Sep 12, 2022
Monday Sep 12, 2022
More at: www.YourParentHelp.com/podcast_0235
When you’re teaching your child, or supporting them academically in any way, even just in thinking about how to get outside help for them, you NEED to understand a few principles of how kids learn to easily avoid conflict and increase actual learning!
- Teachers learn the most.
When we teach something, we retain 90% of the content. Compare that to just 15% retention when something is presented both auditorily and visually!
Prioritize creating opportunities for your child to take on the role of teacher. Many young kids will do this naturally by quizzing the parent, or telling the parent to pretend to be a student. Follow that lead! Let them turn in to the teacher! You can also set up other “students” like stuffed animals or the dog. “Teddy looks confused. Can you explain that to them again?”
- Learning happens in a fun challenge, and when interested.
If your child is stressed or bored, they’re not learning much. We want all learning opportunities to be enjoyable. One way to do this is to consider their interests and make learning opportunities around something interesting to them.
Another way is to challenge them. If something is too easy, it feels boring. And some kids make more mistakes when they find something too easy. They aren’t paying much attention because they’re not interested. However, if something is too hard, they’ll become frustrated and feel defeated. Finding that fine line of giving only what feels almost easy can really engage effort and attention and make them proud of what they accomplish!
- Most people can not attend/focus for More than 10 minutes at a time.
Keep learning activities short, light, and fun! An hour of tutoring once per week is far less impactful than 5 minutes of intentional practice or quick lessons twice per day. Your kid can focus better, and gets lots of opportunity to process between practices, building more automaticity.
Bonus tip: the best time to practice is right before bed! Our brains process all night long and the stuff that happens right before bed gets the most processing.
With these three principles, you can be effective in designing meaningful educational opportunities for your child while avoiding resistance, boredom, and frustration!

Monday Sep 05, 2022
Roots of Behavior with Michele Shilvock, part 2
Monday Sep 05, 2022
Monday Sep 05, 2022
Have you heard of Oppositional Defiant Disorder? How about Pathological Demand Avoidance?
Ever wonder (or know) if your child has one of these and what to do about it?
Listen to this week’s podcast, where we dive deep into what these disorders are, and how to approach behavioral challenges with these kids.
Learn more about Michele’s work at: https://micheleshilvock.com/
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Monday Aug 29, 2022
The Roots of Behavior Difficulties with Michele Shilvock
Monday Aug 29, 2022
Monday Aug 29, 2022
In this week’s podcast, I geeked out a bit with Michele Shilvock, where we talked about behavior difficulties in children and what really works in a respectful and long-term way. Michele speaks from experience, not merely from theory.
Michele starts off walking us through her behavior visual, then explains lagging skills, ODD, and PDA. We definitely didn’t have time to go as deep as I wanted on everything so watch for Part 2 coming soon!

Monday Aug 22, 2022
Boosting Reading Comprehension
Monday Aug 22, 2022
Monday Aug 22, 2022
Improving Reading Comprehension can feel daunting, but there are many simple, easy, and fun strategies that you can start using TODAY to improve your child's reading comprehension, despite any learning disabilities or challenges. These work for kids with autism, ADHD, dyslexia, auditory processing disability, visual processing disability, and more!
Download the Guide at: https://www.yourparenthelp.com/readingcomprehension

Monday Aug 15, 2022
Motivational Modeling
Monday Aug 15, 2022
Monday Aug 15, 2022
As a kid, I remember being scared to go down this set of 3 tall, dark tunnel slides at the local water park (Raging Waters) called The Bermuda Triangle. But I kept watching all of these other kids going down it and laughing and smiling and enjoying it!
Eventually, I climbed the stairs, took a breath and went for it. And I was so glad that I had found that courage. That motivation.
I’m sure you’ve had similar experiences, but have you ever taken the time to consider how this might apply to your relationship with your child?
When I became a parent, I read a lot of books and listened to a lot of people. One thing that struck me was that a child could be “taught” manners by not being forced to say please and thank you, but to just hear and see manners modeled genuinely and often.
Good news! This applies to motivating kids to learn (even those with learning disabilities and learning challenges).
If you want your child to read, grab a book and find a cozy place on the couch and dig in!
If you want your child to do math, model all of your mathematical thinking out loud.
If you want your child to write, write a letter to your cousin who you haven’t seen in 3 years.
If you want your child to love learning, work on learning something new (and be sure your kid sees how terrible you are at it right now, and how you aren’t giving up!).
Watching others engage in an activity can be very motivating. Especially, if it is not tied to: “I’m reading, you should read too!” If it feels coercive, it will not be effective.
And, it might take a lot of modeling, so enjoy the reading, writing, math, and learning activities for their own sake. Know that your child is benefiting from it, and let the struggles and expectations go.

Wednesday Aug 10, 2022
The Real Pace of Learning
Wednesday Aug 10, 2022
Wednesday Aug 10, 2022
Children are expected to learn at a steady pace, starting fourth grade at a 4.0, and ending at a 4.9 or 5.0, with steady consistent growth of .1 each month along the way.
I have never met that child.
Every child I have ever worked with has had periods of explosive growth and periods of stagnation and even regression.
We expect that steady straight line, but the spikes and dips and plateaus is closer to the reality that I see. I also want to point out that some kids will not start or end at the expected points, although I had them line up for this illustration. (www.YourParentHelp.com/podcast_0230)
And while it is easy to look at this overall graph and think, “Yeah, there’s nothing to worry about. That kid made great progress!” it’s not so easy to feel that way in November, when a kid who WAS doing really well, hasn’t made growth in months!
So one big takeaway I want you to see here is that kids will make progress, at their own pace, and you don’t need to panic when progress hasn’t happened in a while.
But you’re probably wondering: Why does this happen? What can we do about these plateaus and dips? Is there a way to maintain better momentum?
Great questions!
Why does this happen?
Kids often get very enthusiastic initially, and then become bored. So their progress can be directly linked to their enthusiasm for learning the skill.
Kids also will have enough background knowledge to make rapid growth initially, before getting stuck on a harder concept for a while. Then when they break through that struggle, they excel again for a while, before hitting another roadblock.
And for some kids, it has to do with self-confidence. They don’t feel self-assured enough to make progress initially. Then they have a breakthrough and feel great, and make huge growth before getting stuck and losing confidence again.
What can we do about these plateaus and dips? Is there a way to maintain better momentum?
One of the best strategies to try when you notice boredom or resistance to daily lessons is to bring in novelty. When things are new again, they feel fresh. This can be as drastic as changing which curriculum you’re using, or can be as simple as:
- Changing the tool: Crayons instead of pencils
- Changing the location: outside, on the couch, under the dining room table
- Changing the time of day: after lunch instead of after breakfast
- Bringing in something new: music, snacks, a “new student” (the dog or a stuffed animal)
Of course, I am never a proponent of forcing a child to do something they are really against. Have a genuine conversation with your child to see what is going on and why they’re feeling resistant. Give them options, and ask for their suggestions.
You might need to take a break from the lessons for a while, but perhaps your kiddo would be on-board to do a little practice to maintain previously-mastered skills.
A word of caution
As you can imagine from all the possible learning graphs of spikes, dips, and plateaus, every child is different and comparing two kids is rarely beneficial.
Keep your own feelings about your child’s progress in check.
Your child is an awesomely unique human who is developing their skills in their own way and at their own pace. Another child’s pace does not reflect anything on your own child’s pace.
However, if in your gut, you know that something is off- your child needs more help, a different program, etc. - make it happen! Don’t ignore those gut feelings, just be sure that they ARE gut feelings!
Takeaway
We expect kids to make slow and steady progress, but I’ve never met a kid who did. Adjust as needed!

Monday Aug 01, 2022
Is Unschooling an Option for YOUR Family??
Monday Aug 01, 2022
Monday Aug 01, 2022
Sue Patterson of Unschooling Mom2Mom defines unschooling as bringing a full, rich life to your kids and trusting that they learn naturally.
Listen to Sue’s answers to these questions (and more):
- What led you to choose unschooling?
- What is your take on unschooling children with learning disabilities such as ADHD or dyslexia?
- Is unschooling ‘right’ for everyone? If not, describe who it is best for and who it is questionable for.
And then let me know if you’re currently unschooling or considering it, or if you just think it’s crazy!
Sue Patterson, a homeschooling mom with over 25 years of experience, is also an author, and an unschooling coach and podcaster. She helps families who aren't happy with their educational situations, and shows them how learning more about unschooling will help. She runs Unschooling Mom2Mom, available on all the social media platforms and offers courses, guides, group coaching programs, and private coaching.
Sue's book: Homeschooled Teens: 75 Young People Speak About their Lives without School.
(Digital and HardCopy at Amazon)
Podcast: Unschooling Mom2Mom http://www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com/podcast
Sue sends out unschooling resources weekly by email.
Join her free email list here: Unschooling Updates

Monday Jul 25, 2022
Benefits to Home Education and Intervention
Monday Jul 25, 2022
Monday Jul 25, 2022
Kids with autism, dyslexia, ADHD, dysgraphia, dyscalculia, and other learning disabilities (including auditory, visual, attention, and cognitive processing disorders) benefit greatly from being carefully educated by those who know them best and spend the most time with them!
Teaching our children at home has so many benefits! Even if your child attends a traditional school, you can support their learning difficulties at home. Here are the benefits that I see:
(Watch or listen for more details on each!)
- Relationship Building
- 1:1 Instruction
- Instruction/Intervention throughout the day
- Individualized ABCs:
- At your child’s level
- Building on strengths
- Challenging appropriately
- Deficits worked on consistently
- Engaging your child’s interests
- Fun for your kid!
Note:
- Know yourself and your kid (will this work for your family?)
- You may want to hire a tutor or enroll your kid in a class instead
- At home interventions is highly effective for kids in traditional schools too (for all the same reasons)
- Very little time should be spent on intensive intervention

Monday Jul 18, 2022
Analyzing Motivation: Interview with Alfie Kohn
Monday Jul 18, 2022
Monday Jul 18, 2022
From www.AlfieKohn.org:
Alfie Kohn writes and speaks widely on human behavior, education, and parenting. The author of fourteen books and hundreds of articles, he lectures at education conferences and universities as well as to parent groups and corporations. Kohn’s criticisms of competition and rewards have been widely discussed and debated, and he has been described in Time magazine as “perhaps the country’s most outspoken critic of education’s fixation on grades [and] test scores.”
Listen as I ask Alfie about some of our previous episodes on motivation and my suggestions on what you should be doing and I get his feedback.
Some of my biggest take-aways were:
- Ask yourself: What are my long term goals for my kid(s)?
- Kids don’t have to be given intrinsic motivation to learn
- Before trying to motivate your child, ask: what am I motivating them to do? Why? Is it developmentally appropriate? Does it meet my child’s needs?
- Imagine how things look from your kid’s point of view.
What were your take-aways?
Start reading his books today!

Monday Jun 27, 2022
Money Money Money
Monday Jun 27, 2022
Monday Jun 27, 2022
One of my favorite mathematical tools is in your wallet, or maybe in your junk drawer, or one of those 5 gallon water jugs.
Coins!
Coins can be used to teach so many math concepts! And yet, money is barely mentioned in the common core standards. I understand that coins aren’t necessarily critical, but I do think it’s important as a life skill AND it’s a great mathematical tool for tons of other concepts!
First, we need to work on teaching our kids to identify coins- their names and values.
Then we can use those coins to practice counting by 1s, 5s, 10s, and 25s!
Counting by numbers means we can also use coins to practice multiplication, making groups of one nickel and 2 pennies to practice 7s, for example.
If our kids are comfortable with knowing that 4 quarters makes a dollar, then we can use that to reinforce fractions. Three quarters means ¾ of a dollar!
This knowledge of fractions then ties into decimals and their equivalent fractions. 25/100 is equal to ¼ because $0.25 is 1 quarter, which is ¼ of a dollar.
We can then use this to work on ratios in much the same way. We might discuss the ratio of 5 pennies to every 1 nickel. So 5 nickels is 25 pennies.
Along the way, our children will have also learned a lot about place value, including decimal place value. They can practice trading 10 pennies for 1 dime. And the opposite. Think about how this can be used for multi-digit addition and subtraction. They can trade dollars, dimes, and pennies as needed to make counting easier and to make subtraction possible.
Having our kids be very comfortable with counting and using coins is a wonderful example of everyday learning, using an everyday activity or skill to learn deeply.